“Sometimes love just isn’t enough in a relationship.” - Jake Pavelka

We don’t even have a joke for this moving quote, but The Bachelor star may be right. Especially if your fiancee is a nut job stalker, which he can attest to.

Sources close to the couple say they weren’t too surprised to see Jake and Vienna break up, in large part because she didn’t give him a whole lot of space.

“She was kind of stalkerish,” says a staffer who worked closely with Jake Pavelka on Dancing With the Stars. “She wanted to spend a lot of time with him.”

“Everywhere he would go, she would go. Rehearsals, photo shoots, practice. She was the only significant other there sometimes … it was a little weird.”

Another source says Vienna was pissed when Jake was cast on DWTS, saying she is “not a fan of reality TV” (LOL) or him being surrounded by women.

A Bachelor staffer echoed the sentiment: “I don’t think anyone really expected [Jake and Vienna] to last. It seemed like more of an infatuation than love.”

More specifically, Vienna went on the show because he was on it, and Jake was so smitten that he didn’t heed warnings from … well, the whole country.

In any case, it all unraveled amid rumors of Vienna cheating with Gregory Michael, which she denies. Moreover, her stepmom calls Jake a fame whore.

Oh yes. To hear her family tell it, Vienna Girardi was the one who out because of Jake’s undying love for the spotlight. NOTE: They met on reality TV.

Her stepmom Lisa also says her relationship with Jake Pavelka ended last night around 6 p.m., and the breakup took place over the phone! Weak, J.

Whose side are you on?

Hold the phone, there’s plenty more from Vienna’s camp …

According to her family, Vienna felt that Jake constantly abandoned her for photo shoots and other media events … instead of building a foundation.

Every reality TV fairy tale needs one of those.

Vienna adamantly denies ever cheating on Jake, despite earlier reports Jake was convinced she was “stepping out” on him with that dude from Greek.

Girardi’s family wasn’t done either, with her family members telling TMZ that Jake is a total fraud who was only motivated by TV ratings and not love.

Quoth the stepmom: “I don’t think [Jake] ever loved her … I think he picked her because she is a dramatic person and it was good for the ratings.”

She also said that despite his public love-fests, “In real life, they never kissed, didn’t have a romantic relationship and he never said he loved her.”

If that’s true, he is definitely the biggest fraud of all time. One thing is for sure, in any event - he won’t be holding on to any five-figure parting gifts.

Vienna gave her engagement ring back to Jake when she moved out of his place this weekend, but that ,000 rock will be headed back to ABC.

Her stepmom says Vienna ditched Jake with a goodbye note … and the 3 carat Neil Lane diamond he used to pop the question on The Bachelor.

Sources close to the show say Jake is required to give the ring back to the production company, and only keeps it if they end up getting married.

Decent odds for the show … 13/14 total, and even Jason Mesnick probably had to buy his own for Molly Malaney after dumping Melissa Rycroft.

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Over the last few weeks, Justin Bieber has jokingly come on to Kim Kardashian, Cheryl Cole and Megan Fox.

But what kind of girl is the singer actually in the market for? Read closely, ladies, as Bieber revealed the traits that give him love fever in a recent interview.

“She needs to have a nice personality, a good sense of humour, nice eyes and a brain,” he said. “What’s the point of having a nice looking girlfriend if you can’t talk to her? You want to be able to sit down to dinner and be with someone who you can have a proper conversation with.”

Sorry, Kim. That takes you out of the running.

Are you a naturally beautiful, funny girl with nice eyes and a high IQ? Call Justin Bieber today!

Added Justin:

“I don’t like girls who wear lots of make-up and you can’t see their face. Some girls are beautiful but insecure and look much better without the make-up, but decide to put loads on.”

Once again: very sorry, Kim.

Once Bieber has found a gal he wants to pursue, how does he work his game? The star shared:

“At first I won’t let her know - you’ve got to pace yourself. Then, maybe by the end of the conversation, I’d ask her something like, ‘Do you have a phone number that I could reach you at?’ That’s usually how it goes.”

That sure beats the typical THG pick-up line: You show us yours, and we’ll show you our… Robert Pattinson photos.

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With speculation growing about his alleged abduction at gunpoint and forced drug use in Palm Springs, Calif., a week and a half ago, Jeremy London wants to set the record straight: It happened, and it was a complete and utter nightmare.

In a statement to Radar Online, the Party of Five star recounts the night: “First of all, I want to say [the incident] actually happened. It was one of the worst days of my life.”

“I thought I was going to die. Thank God I made it out alive.”

The Jeremy London kidnapping account continues: “I had a gun put to my head. I had my family threatened. We’re currently working closely with the Palm Springs Police Department to get the rest of the guys. There’s one guy in custody.”

“There’s two more out there.”

Jeremy London says he’s lucky to be alive.

A recovering drug addict, London had been embroiled in a custody battle with his ex-wife Melissa over their son Lyric, 3. But the spouses have apparently reconciled - Melissa was actually with Jeremy in the initial stages of the kidnapping.

London says his mother, his brother Jason and his brother’s girlfriend are spreading “outrageous lies” about the incident and added that he has not spoken to them in months, and has sent legal threats to his family to stop talking to the press.

Reached for comment Monday, Jason said, “I’m glad my brother’s okay, but I have serious questions about what transpired. His health is our #1 concern.”

Asked if there was any reason to doubt London’s version of events, Palm Springs Police spokeswoman Melissa Desmarais said: “No, not at this point. Our investigators had enough information to arrest a suspect and the investigation is ongoing.”

The suspect, Brandon Adams, has already been charged by officials with kidnapping, robbery, possession of stolen property, vehicle theft and carjacking.

London, 37 opened up earlier this year about his struggle to stay sober and his financial troubles. We wish him the best getting through this ordeal now.

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Okay, we just made up the second part of the headline above. But based on her recent Yankee game spectacle, do you have any doubt that this is true?

In the new issue of Rolling Stone, which features Lady Gaga in a machine gun bra on the cover, the “Poker Face” singer is looking forward to next year.

She’s finished recording her newest album and is planning an early 2011 release, the name of which she will announce at midnight on New Year’s Eve.

“I think I’m gonna get the album title tattooed on me and put out the photo,” she said. “I’ve been working on it for months, and I feel very strongly that it’s finished now. It came so quickly. Some artists take years; I don’t. I write music every day.”

Lady Gaga displays her Yankees pride … and breasts.

Gaga added that unlike her debut, The Fame, and 2009’s follow-up, The Fame Monster, the new disc will have more political, even angry overtones, tackling hot-button issues close to the crooner’s heart, such as gays in the military.

“Why are we still talking about ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell?’ exclaimed Gaga to the magazine. “It’s like, what f*%king year is it? It just makes me crazy!”

“I have been for three years baking cakes. Now I’m going to bake a cake that has a bitter jelly,” she adds. “The message of the new music is now more bitter than it was before. Because the sweeter the cake, the more bitter the jelly can be.”

We don’t really follow, but we’re looking forward to another year of outrageous hit songs, videos, quotes and Lady Gaga hermaphrodite rumors.

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Might Miley Cyrus be maturing?!?

We don’t have our hopes up, as we’ll likely be shaking our heads over the singer’s outfit tomorrow - but for one night, at least, Cyrus toned down her transparent attempts to seem edgy and mature and allowed the audience to focus on both her music and an important message.

This monumental event took place at the House of Blues in Los Angeles. Performing a set that included “Can’t Be Tamed” and “Every Rose Has Its Thorn,” Miley actually wore pants. No, really, she did. See for yourself:

[Photos: PacificCoastNewsOnline.com]

Cyrus also sang “My Heat Beats for Love” and prefaced it by saying:

“I wrote this for my gay fans. Everyone has the right to love each other and no one should feel discriminated or judged for that.”

We couldn’t agree more. We’d take back every word ever written about how big of a disappointment Miley has become if she would focus her energy on causes and messages such as this, as opposed to looking for the skimpiest outfit she can find each night.

Below, we’ve posted videos of two performances from this concert. Watch and enjoy.

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